What is success? How to live a successful and meaningful life?

What is success? How can you define success? Is it money, is it fame, is it power, or is it happiness?

In his book "Born to Win," the famous American author and motivational speaker, Zig Ziglar, argues that success cannot be defined in one sentence, but instead, it comprises of many things. One could say that the definition depends on the individual. However, there are different definitions of success, and not all of these definitions will resonate with us, but there are chances that few of them will.

• Success is properly setting concrete goals – Success can be defined as the ability to set concrete and realistic goals because if you know where you are heading, that is a success in itself.

• Don't Compare– Often, people compare their situations with others. They may see someone on social media or real life, thinking they have a perfect life and disregard their own achievements. Everybody's life has its ups and downs. If you are better off emotionally, spiritually, socially, or financially than yesterday, you are successful.

• Success is always doing your best - Success is when you give your best, no matter what happens. Even if you haven't seen great results yet, if you have done your best, you should feel proud of it.

• Success is understanding the difference between need and want – We often see people around us who are confused about what they need and what they want. Identifying when you absolutely need something and when you can do without it often leads to financial stability and is a great way to succeed. This can help you gain clarity in your goals and strive to achieve them. For example, you may want an expensive SUV but you can also do with a less expensive vehicle that is practical for you. If you are able to afford it, go for what you need in the present.

• Success is believing you can – If you think you can, you succeed. Self-belief doesn't come to everyone naturally. So if you're able to tell yourself that you can achieve your goals, you are doing great.

• Success is to remember to balance work with passion – Focus on what excites you. If you are happy with your job, that's awesome!! However, if you aren't, you can balance your formal career with hobbies or volunteering works you are passionate about.

• Success is to learn to say 'NO' - Success only comes with a balanced life. Part of the balanced life is learning to say 'No.' Saying 'No' doesn't mean that you are selfish. It merely means that you also have your priorities and know what you need to give your attention to at any given time.

• Success is to understand your life is filled with abundance - You need to realize that your life is filled with abundance – Love, health, family, friends, and many other valuable things you don't realize. Recognizing that it is, is a crucial step to feel appreciation for all life has given you. If you value this in your life already, then you are already experiencing success.

• Success is celebrating small victories – Any time you achieve a goal or overcome an obstacle, even though it may seem small, take time to celebrate.

• Success is understanding that you control your destiny - Your destiny is controlled by you and you alone. Take responsibility for your actions and their consequences, and you will find that you will naturally become more successful.

Some tips for being successful in life –

• Believe in yourself, but be aware of your limitations too.

• Use everything in moderation.

• Treat others how they want to be treated.

• Give preference to your family first.

• Pay attention to the moment.

• Always have a positive mind-set

• Ensure you invest time in learning new skills and to educate yourself

• Be passionate

• Always be reflective

• Surround yourself with supportive people.

• Strive for excellence, not for perfection

Always understand that you cannot have everything at the same time. You have only 24 hours in a day, and you need to take care of your work, relationship, and spirit. You don't have to do everything at once. Life doesn't have to be complicated.

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